A large organization referred a financial manager for coaching. HR had fielded several complaints concerning his communication style and thought he would improve his future opportunities by receiving outside help. We first asked him to explain what gave him great joy in his work. He relished opportunities to think strategically and to offer business guidance to his organization, a motivation singularly attuned to leadership.
We provided examples from expert communicators to help him to improve his interpersonal communication skills. He readily and easily adopted these capabilities. But what came next was even more fascinating.
Upon asking him about his dream, he replied that he wanted to be a "mini CFO" even though his capabilities and experience would enable him to do much more. This apparent incongruity between capabilities and experience and his dream prompted us to probe for more explanation and understanding. Underlying his incongruity was a limiting belief that he could only undertake a new job if he was already experienced in that position. When asked if he had ever taken a position he had yet to experience, he replied that there was never any position for which he was singularly prepared. We challenged his limiting belief emphasizing that he need not experience a position to accept it since he knew how to successfully learn new positions. As a result of this coaching intervention, not only did he dramatically improve communication, he became recognized as a high potential in the organization. He now wants to become a CFO or beyond.
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